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September was a really outstanding month for me.  I literally spent the whole 30 days indoors. I went out just like thrice. My couch potato game is a 10. Most of the days followed the basic routine of waking up late, eating, fiddling with my phone, sometimes reading, sleeping very late and like that. Nevertheless, God was (is) still God throughout and I'm sharing my September lessons in the taking stock format.

Learning - That sometimes, seeking for the opinion/approval of people is like giving them a cutlass to cut you with.

Hoping - That I make the right choices as regards everything

Wanting - To change my blog theme. I've been eyeing some really cute ones on Etsy.

Wishing - That I actually bought one of the cute themes when I saw them and dollar exchange rate wasn't this high. Sigh, no such thing as perfect timing guys. Do what you have to do.

Praying - That Nigeria gets better.

Reading - Many things at a time with very little concentration because I basically spent the whole month on my phone surfing the net.

Wondering - Why network is this terrible in my room. Like the other night, I literally spent 30mins trying to publish this POST

Thankful - For my blogging journey thus far.

Proud - Of myself for finally making somewhat perfect pancakes for about 5 consecutive times. It used to be on and off thingy whenever I summon courage to do it but I can confidently say you'd score me a 7 and above if you eat it. And oh, I learnt lessons from my pancake failures and I'm going to share it very soon!

Excited - That I passed a certain milestone with my pageviews that I didn't even think would be attainable this year talkless of within a month when I made the decision!

Appreciating - Every single person that visits my blog and reads my post.  Thank you. Gracias. Merci. Grazie

Amazed - By the fact that I finally joined Instagram. It's a big deal for me because I never planned to. Reasons for this are enough for a blog post I'm telling you but before then, you can follow me HERE

Needing - All the motivation there is to read aggressively. So many things to read.

Trying - To consciously CHOOSE POSITIVITY

Annoyed - That my first class upon resumption is by 8am.

Saying - A very big THANKS to you for reading this post to the end and also for leaving me a comment (Well, that's in advance).

This taking stock format is really cool and I might as well use it again and also try to incorporate it into posts other than monthly recaps. I think it makes reading easier.

What do you think about it?

I'm back to school and even though I have mixed feelings about it I'm extremely happy that I just might reduce/stop MY SKINCARE MISTAKES

Any special thing you're anticipating in October?

What lessons did you learn in September?

I'd love to hear from you. Please leave me your thoughts.

Have a pleasant October. Best wishes. xxx

P. S - You can read my other monthly recap HERE 

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